Why She Tells You When Other Guys Hit On Her

She always tells you when other guys hit on her because she is just trying to gain something from you. It may be hard for you to understand why she tells you when guys ask her out on dates or seduce her.

In this article, I will share with you several reasons why she always tells you when other guys try things to impress her or win her over.

Some of the things that I will share with you will shock you, but that is the reality of how girls are.

When a girl tells you something that she doesn’t have to, there is always something she is trying to fish from you.

It can be that she is trying to pull you towards her side or just to crush your self-esteem.

To be honest, as a guy, would you go around telling a girl you are so close with that other girls are driving you nuts in your DMs?

Some things that you encounter out there will be yours only unless she must know about them.

If a girl tells you that other guys are chasing her whenever she goes out, observe her, she is trying to pin you down and make you feel insecure.

Anyway, before I go deeper into this part, let me share what it means when a girl tells you about other guys hitting on her.

What does it mean when a girl tells you about other guys hitting on her?

When a girl tells you about other guys hitting on her it means she wants to make you jealous, and insecure. Also, she may be trying to make you realize that she is a catch out there so that you don’t take her for granted.

The clear meaning of this depends on your relationship with her. If she is just a friend or your girlfriend, the reason behind her telling you about other guys asking her out or seducing her will differ.

As we go deeper into this article, you will know both sides of the coin.

If she is just a friend but she keeps telling you about other guys hitting on her — she wants you to make a move on her because if you keep stalling you will end up losing her to someone else.

It can be that she has noticed you have feelings for her but you haven’t made the point of getting closer to her and opened up about how you feel for her.

She is sure that when she tells you that other guys are fighting to win her — you will conclude that you might end up losing her to someone else and this will push you to make your move.

The fact is that if you have feelings for her and she tells you that other guys are always on her tail, you won’t want to lose her.

You will just get yourself out of the friendship shadow and express what you feel for her.

But if you have no feelings for her then you will do nothing about it.

This brings me to the next point, if she is just a friend but she keeps telling you when other guys hit on her, she is just curious to know how you feel about her.

When a girl tells you that other guys are proposing to her when you are into her, you won’t vouch for any guy who is after her.

You might even advise her to not accept them in her life since you want her for yourself.

This is something she expects you to do. She will use this to know if you have feelings for her and you would want something more from her or you will just keep her in the friend zone.

When you vouch for other guys to win her instead of advising her against it, this will make her realize that you aren’t interested in her.

So, if a girl tells you something there is always a reaction she is trying to get from you.

What you will do or say after she has told you that other guys are chasing her, is what she will use to measure how you feel for her.

The above part I have been explaining is if she is just a friend.

But what if she is your girlfriend and she tells you that other guys hit on her?

What does it mean when your girlfriend tells you about other guys hitting on her?

When your girlfriend tells you about other guys hitting on her it means she wants to gain your trust, wants to make you jealous, makes you feel insecure or it can be that she wants you to stop taking her for granted.

As you can see, there are a bunch of reasons why your girlfriend would tell you about other guys hitting on her.

I will elaborate on them for you to understand everything she is trying to imply by telling you when guys ask her out or hit her DMs.

The first solid reason when your girlfriend tells you about other guys hitting on her it has something to do with gaining your trust.

Especially if there has been an issue between you and she thought that the foundation of trust in that relationship is crumbling down, she is trying to fix things.

She is telling you about what happens when she goes out there because she wants you to believe that she is honest with you and she is an open book.

If your girlfriend tells you everything that happens when she is not around you, this will make it easier for you to trust her.

This is what she is trying to gain by telling you about other guys hitting on her.

When you notice that she tells you everything about the guys who are always trying to hit her, the trust will be rebuilt especially if you had trust issues.

So, if there is an issue between you and now your girlfriend is telling you whenever a guy asks her out or seduces her — she wants to gain your trust.

Another reason why your girlfriend tells you about other guys hitting on her is that; she wants your attention.

All girls love attention. Some may pretend that they don’t care about that but the moment you ignore them and focus on what matters, they will come hard at you.

When your girlfriend notices that you no longer spend more time with her, you don’t give her the attention she wants and you are so distracted by other things; she will find a means to grab your attention.

If your girlfriend tells you that other guys are trying so hard to impress her whenever she is out there by giving her flowers and offering to spend time with her, this will wake you up.

You will definitely conclude that if you don’t give her the attention she wants you will end up losing her to other guys who are focused on her.

This will be the reason for you to start paying attention to her and giving her what she wants.

You will start being more concerned about her, you will make time for her and you will want her to realize that you still care about her so that she doesn’t entertain the other guys.

It’s normal for guys to feel threatened when other guys are hitting on their girlfriends.

Talking about being threatened, if she tells you about other guys hitting on her, you will get jealous.

She wants to make you jealous. It can be that she likes it when you are jealous because it looks cute on you.

Other girls like making their boyfriends jealous just to watch how protective they become or just to keep them on their toes.

Your girlfriend is doing this on purpose. She wants to see your reaction when you are jealous.

The way you behave when you are jealous is what your girlfriend is interested in. She likes it when you are jealous because you seem to pay more attention to her.

It can also be that she feels special, wanted, and loved more when you are all jealous of her businesses that go out there.

When you aren’t jealous your girlfriend might end up concluding that you don’t even love her and you won’t mind if she ends up with other guys.

So, the reaction you give her when she tells you that other guys are chasing her should be appropriate. Don’t show her that you don’t care what happens out there.

If she thinks that you have been taking her for granted but can’t face you and tell you about it directly, she will start to use other phrases.

When your girlfriend tells you that other guys hit on her, she wants you to know that she is still attractive and so many guys are after her.

If you keep taking her for granted you will end up losing her to other guys who are trying everything to have her in their lives.

So, if your girlfriend complains about how you treat her and then tells you that there are so many guys who are seducing her — she is trying to let you know that you might end up losing her to other guys if you keep handling her the way you do.

It’s an indirect warning that you should stop doing the things you do if you want her by your side.

She wants you to know that she is valuable, charming, and catchy and so many guys wish to hold her in their arms.

It is something positive if she is putting you in this position so that you improve the relationship. There is nothing wrong with her telling you about other guys hitting on her.

But it is not always for the right reasons when your girlfriend tells you about other guys hitting on her.

It can be that she just wants to make you feel insecure and in turn, manipulate you. You won’t even realize that she is doing that because you are too busy trying to keep her to yourself.

If you are so much in love with her the moment she tells you that other guys are trying harder to win her — this will make you feel insecure.

Especially if you have some residue of insecurities and low self-esteem issues, this is going to crush you completely.

If you think that you aren’t good for her and she might end up leaving you for someone better, richer, and attractive, you will want to do things to compensate for that.

You will be ready to give her anything or do anything for her thinking that you are going to satisfy her and keep her around because you are giving her more.

This is when she will use this opportunity to manipulate you and you won’t even realize it because you will be busy trying to show her that you can be more of the guy you are right now.

To compensate for your flaws you will offer materialistic things thinking that she will stick because what you offer is more.

So, if your girlfriend keeps telling you about other guys hitting on her and she keeps asking you for things, and money, and wants more than she used to ask, she is just using you.

Lastly…

If your girlfriend tells you that other guys hit on her it can be that she is just trying to crash your ego. She wants you to know that she is in the market.

She will get another man as soon as you leave her. So, you should be humble to her treat her right, and give her what she wants.

If there is a trust issue between you and now she tells you about other guys hitting on her, she is trying to gain your trust.

What she tells you may be disturbing but try your best not to be dragged down. Don’t let what she tells you eat you up.

But if she is just a friend, when she tells you about other guys asking her out or seducing her, she wants you to make your move soon if you are into her before she ends up in another guy’s arms.