When A Girl Comes Over To Your House: It Means?

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When a girl comes over to your house is it a good sign? Does it truly show she is interested and would like to take things forward?

 

In this article, I will share what it means when a girl comes over to your house. Some of the things I will share will surprise you but they are the reality of things when it comes to your connection with her.

 

The moment a girl wants to get closer to you she will do anything she can to eliminate the distance.

 

This means she will always be talking to you, calling and texting you, she will give you random gifts, she will always be there when you need her and she will spend so much time with you.

 

You will see it from her expressions that she is pulling you closer and she is trying to make an incredible connection with you.

 

Anyway, if she comes over does it just tell you that she is willing to risk it all?

 

For you to know why a girl would come over to your house there are some things you need to understand before we go deeper.

 

What does it mean when a girl wants to come over to your house?

When a girl comes over to your house when it’s clear that the two of you have a thing for each other but you have never made it clear it means she wants to make a move on you or put you in a position to express what you feel for her. But if there is no romantic connection between you other than a purely platonic relationship, she just wants to hang out with you as a friend.

 

Before she made the point of coming over to your house the two of you had been talking and spending so much time together.

 

Maybe your angle is to befriend her first before you start expressing your feelings for her. You just want to observe the vibe between you before you pour your heart out to her.

 

She came over to your house because the two of you are close to each other, you have something in common, and always enjoy spending time with each other.

 

Read also; When A Girl Says She Loves Spending Time With You: It Means?

 

Let me say your relationship with her (be it platonic or romantic) is on good terms. You guys are great when you are around each other.

 

You are a vibe when you hang out with each other. So, when a girl finds you to be an interesting person to hang out with, she will always be around you.

 

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If it was always awkward to be around each other and she felt unease around you, she wouldn’t have come over to your house.

 

That is the first part of her coming over to your house. Your relationship with her is amazing, she cares about you and she just wants to spend more time with you.

 

When it reaches a point a girl comes over to your house it shows how comfortable she feels around you.

 

It’s very hard for a girl to just go to a man’s house even if she is so close to him. There has to be something special between you regarding how you handle each other.

 

When a girl feels safe with you, she will follow you anywhere you go. She will be ready to spend time with you even under the coral reefs at the sea shore.

 

She won’t care about where you stay and how fancy it is. Even if you have no place of your own, she will come over wherever you are.

 

This portrays how she feels about you. The surprising thing is that she may not have romantic feelings for you but she does all that because she just trusts you and feels safe when she is around you.

 

So, if you have always done things to show her that you mean well to her and you will never do anything wrong to hurt her, she will always feel safe with you even if it’s at midnight walking on an empty road together.

 

Apart from her feeling comfortable around you and wanting to spend time with you, she came over to your house because there was something she wanted from you.

 

She is searching for a way to make a move on you or put you in a position to open up to her about how you feel for her.

 

That is why she came over to your house. It’s a private space where you can freely open up to each other about how you all feel.

 

If there is a connection between you and things between you are always tense when you look at each other. This should tell you that she is taking the first step.

 

Especially if you didn’t talk to her about coming over to your place and she did, this shows that she is making the first move on you.

 

The part of her coming to your house shows that she is willing to show how she feels about you.

 

She will either make a move on you or she will give you no choice but to initiate a romantic touch with her.

 

That will all be clear by how she will handle herself when she is with you at your place.

 

If you invited her to your house and she came, it shows how comfortable she feels with you, and how much she trusts you and it can also be her curiosity that drove her to your place.

 

She just wants to know what you have in store for her and that is why she came over to your house when you asked her to.

 

But does it necessarily mean that she is into you when she comes over to your house? That is something we should talk about.

 

If a girl comes to your house does she like you?

If a girl comes over to your house it doesn’t necessarily mean she likes you unless you see that she is trying hard to capture your attention by doing things to get you closer to her romantically or expressing how she feels about you.

 

The part of her coming to your house doesn’t directly tell you that she has a thing for you. You guys know each other and you have been talking for a while.

 

She probably knows that you have the best intentions with her, she feels safe around you and when you asked her to come over she did because she is curious to know what you want to share with her.

 

The only way to know if she likes you or not is by observing how she handles herself when she is next to you.

 

Look at how she responds to anything you say to her, the words she says, and the things she suggests when she is with you.

 

If what she does and what she says suggests that she has romantic feelings for you then it’s clear that she likes you more than just a friend.

 

She came over to your place because she wanted you to make a romantic move on her or to express herself on how she feels about you.

 

But if she has never shown you any romantic gestures but only handles you as a friend, she comes over to your house because she wants to spend some time with you. She probably enjoys your company the most, it doesn’t matter the location you are with her.

 

Lastly…

If she came over to your place and you have no idea what she truly wants, you can try to fish it out of her.

 

Say things or do things to see if you are all on the same page or not. Most girls find it hard to express their feelings to guys directly but they will use signals.

 

It will be up to you to analyze the signs and figure out what she wants and how she feels about you.

 

You can only find that out by making a move on her. Try holding her hands and see how she will react. If she is fine with that move a little bit further and place your hands on her shoulders.

 

If she is okay with that move further and eventually take the first step to initiate the kiss.

 

But if you try to express your feelings by words or actions and she pushes you away, don’t keep forcing it. Let her be.

 

It can be that she only came over to your place because she wants to hang out with you and have a good time together.

 

Related reads;

  1. If A Girl Says She Has A  Boyfriend Is That Total Rejection?
  2. When She Says Let’s Be Friends And See Where It Goes
  3. When A Girl Says She Loves Spending Time With You: It Means?

Abduljabbar Ali

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I am Abduljabbar Ali from Mombasa, Kenya. I have been fortunate enough to travel around Kenya. I will be sharing my travel experience and travel tips with you. Say "Hi" and let us connect.

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