Abduljabbar Ali When a guy talks sexually to you, does it mean anything? Does it mean he wants you sexually or it’s just a matter of sexting for the moment because he is on heat?
In this article, I will share what it means when a guy talks sexually to you, what you can conclude about him, and what you should do if you aren’t enjoying it.
Men love sexting with women they are attracted to sexually. As long as you have an amazing body that they desire and want to get hold of, they will start sexting with you.
You may not understand why men do that, since every man has his end goal when he talks sexually to you.
So, without wasting time, let me share with you what it means when a guy talks sexually to you.
What does it mean when a guy talks sexually to you?
When a guy talks sexually to you it means that he is attracted to you sexually, he is h*rny, wants to get you in the mood, he is expressing what he feels for you and he is trying to let you know that you are all he desires for the moment.
There are so many reasons why a guy would talk sexually to you, but the common one always has something to do with how he feels about you.
It’s all about what he wants from you, how he thinks about you, and how he perceives you.
Some guys will sext with you with something else in mind, as you keep reading this article, you will know it all.
It is really hard for guys to hide their intentions. If he wants to get into your pants you will know just from how he behaves and handles you.
But if he wants something real with you, the first interaction will tell you everything you need to know about him.
So, if a guy talks sexually to you, it means he is just super excited sexually, it’s lust that is driving him right now and that is why he says all those things.
At the moment the only thing he is thinking about is getting you in his bed. That is when the sext comes in.
Some guys are just nasty and the aspect of talking sexually to any woman that they are attracted to is something normal.
They don’t find it a big deal because, to them, that is the only thing that fuels an interesting conversation.
Other guys love talking about sex and that is what will always be at their fingertips the moment they talk to a woman they are sexually attracted to.
It may be harder to figure out why a guy would talk sexually to you unless you have an idea of what he wants from you.
Also, the kind of relationship you have developed with him plays a big part in helping you know what his end goal is.
If a guy talks sexually does he like you?
If the only thing he talks about with you is sex and how he wants to pin you on his bed, he doesn’t like you. But if he shows genuine interest in you by being there for you, taking care of you, and putting effort into maintaining a healthy relationship, he truly likes you.
The only way to know if a guy is truly interested in you and doesn’t want to use you for sex is by observing how he handles you and what he talks about.
If he only focuses on a single thing, that is where his aim is at. Men are really bad at multitasking thus making it easier for you to realize what they want.
You just have to be observant and you will know everything.
Some guys will talk sexually to you only because they want you sexually and it’s not that they want to build a serious relationship with you.
After they get what they want from you, they will never get in touch with you again.
When a guy talks sexually to you don’t just conclude that he sees something in you.
Other guys only see your body and that fuels their lust thus they can’t help but talk sexually to you.
One thing is clear for sure, if he talks sexually to you, he wants to f*ck with you.
If you entertain his chats and it reaches a moment when you want to give your body to him, he won’t deny it.
He will not pull away simply because you are offering yourself to him no matter what he thinks of you.
When a guy talks sexually to you, he is trying to express his feelings for you in a sexual way, in a language that you can understand and at the same time know his intentions.
Other guys are genuine, while others just want to smash with you and that is all.
Something else you should know before I get to another section of this article, some guys will talk sexually to you because you are available.
It’s not because they want you sexually or they are interested in you.
If they are bored and they don’t have anyone to talk to at the moment, they will sext with you.
But when they get busy or find someone whom they truly admire, they will stop talking sexually to you.
It will even be harder for them to initiate conversations as they used to.
This is what to do when a guy talks sexually to you;
1. If you are interested respond positively.
When a guy talks sexually to you the first thing to do is to check your interest.
If you are interested in him, and you want him to keep going, you should respond positively to encourage him to keep the chats or conversation going.
But if you aren’t into him even if you like the topic you will have to stop him.
For instance, if you like the topic he talks about but you aren’t interested in him but you keep entertaining him you will only give him an impression that you are into him.
This might make things uncomfortable for you because he might end up requesting something that you might not be willing to offer.
So, if you aren’t interested in him don’t keep the chats or conversation going if he talks sexually to you.
But if you like it, spice things up and let him know that you enjoy the topic. It might end up developing into something that you both want.
What if you are interested in him but you don’t like the topic he talks about?
And at the same time, you don’t want to make him think that you don’t like him.
The best thing you can do is to make sure that you give him the right impression but let him know that you aren’t in the mood to sext.
Be polite as you respond to him so that he doesn’t think that you are angry at him for talking sexually to you.
2. Stop him if you don’t like it.
If he talks sexually to you and you don’t enjoy it, be honest with him about it instead of pretending.
If you pretend that you enjoy it when you don’t he will only keep talking about it and you won’t be happy.
So, talk to him politely and let him know that you are not into what he brings to the table.
You have the right to block him if he keeps texting you. But if you are next to him then you will have to think of a way to distance yourself from him.
This is what you should do if you want him to stop sexting you when you don’t like it.
It can be that he thinks you enjoy it, but when you let him know the truth, he will stop talking about it if he doesn’t do it deliberately to annoy you.
This is what to do when a guy talks sexually to you.
Lastly…
When a guy talks sexually to you and you don’t like it, you have the right to distance yourself from him, block him or just ignore him.
You don’t have to pretend you like what he tells you even if you are interested in him.
It will only irritate you. But if you enjoy what he brings to the table (sex chat) then you have to keep it going to let him know that you enjoy the talk.
This will encourage him to keep going thus making things amazing between you.
When a guy talks sexually to you it doesn’t necessarily mean that he likes you.
For instance, if it’s a guy you met recently, you don’t know much about each other and he just talks sexually to you, you can’t conclude that he likes you.
This guy is just disrespecting you. And if you respond positively to him you will only give him an impression that that is what you are all about.
But if it’s a guy friend and out of nowhere he is talking sexually to you.
It can be that he is interested in you and he is trying to express his feelings for you.
This will give you an indication that he wants something more.
If it’s your boyfriend, he is trying to tell you that he misses you sexually and he wants to get you in his bed as soon as he gets hold of you.
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